A bride stands in a field of wheat with a beautiful view behind her of welsh mountains. It is a bright summers day and she is being mindful and calm.


Congratulations on your engagement and welcome to the world of wedding planning.

Planning your wedding can be one of the most exciting times of your life, but it can also be stressful and overwhelming. With so many decisions to make and deadlines to meet, it’s easy to feel like you’re losing control. That’s where mindfulness comes in! In this post, we’ll explore what mindfulness is and how mindfulness practices can help with your wedding planning.

a bride and groom take a moment to be mindful on their wedding day. They stand embracing with their eyes closed.


Mindfulness is the practice of being fully present and aware of our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations in the present moment, without judgment or distraction. It’s about being attentive to what’s going on around us and within us, and accepting it as it is, rather than resisting or avoiding it. By focusing on the here and now, we can reduce stress, anxiety, and negative thinking, and increase our sense of peace, clarity, and joy.



Wedding planning can be a rollercoaster of emotions, from excitement and anticipation to frustration and disappointment. Mindfulness practices can help you stay grounded and centred amidst the chaos, and enable you to make decisions with clarity and intention.



a bride and groom have a mindful moment stood in a deer park at sunset. They are surrounded by deer.MINDFULNESS PRACTICES TO INCORPORATE INTO YOUR WEDDING PLANNING


Take a few minutes each day to sit quietly and breathe deeply. Allow your thoughts to come and go without reacting to them, and simply observe your breath as it flows in and out of your body. This can help you calm your mind and reset your nervous system.


Keep a journal of things you’re grateful for each day, whether it’s a supportive partner, a beautiful venue, or a relaxing bath. Focusing on what’s going well can help you shift your perspective from scarcity to abundance, and cultivate a positive attitude.

This Head Plan Gratitude Journal is perfect if, like me, you prefer to have some daily guidance. 


“What you think, you become.
What you feel, you attract.
What you imagine, you create.”

– Buddah



When choosing your wedding menu or tasting food, take the time to savour each bite and appreciate the flavours, textures, and aromas. This can help you connect with your senses and enjoy the experience fully, rather than rush through it.


Whenever you feel overwhelmed or stressed, take a few deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth. This can help you release tension and relax your muscles, so you can approach your tasks with renewed energy.

If you are not sure where to start with breathing exercises for stress, the NHS has this quick start online. 


When discussing your wedding plans with your partner, suppliers, or family members, aim to listen attentively and speak honestly and respectfully. This can help you avoid misunderstandings, conflicts, or hurt feelings, and strengthen your relationships.


wedding planning mindfulness was key for this happy bride who stood next to her bridesmaids. She is laughing with the girls.

In conclusion, mindfulness is a powerful tool that can enhance your wedding planning experience and bring more joy and ease to your special day. By staying present, grateful, and open-minded, you can create a celebration that reflects your unique vision and values, and makes you feel fully alive.

I hope this post has inspired you to explore the art of mindfulness and discover its benefits for yourself. Happy planning!


Charlotte Burn is a Cotswold-based Wedding Photographer documenting your unique love stories across the West Midlands, South-West, UK and beyond. She believes in slowing down, appreciating the beauty in life, and fully embracing and enjoying every part of your wedding planning journey. To discuss how she can capture your wedding day get in touch today.